If now, closing her eyes, her mind was in a daze, what would she think of a "lady"?
If right now, you meet someone smiling and waving "Hello, lady", what do you think they are seeing in you?
If you go to a dating site right now and type in your profile: "A Lady", what do you expect your potential partner to think of you?
When someone calls you "Miss", do you feel a little bit of arousal? A little bit, right?
In contact with customers at Hity, I often meet women who leave me with a very delicate, confident, neat, strong image without being noisy or ostentatious. I think of them with many names. I think that when introducing people often say "Ladies and Gentlemen", but the word Ladies is still not enough to describe the image of the women I have met. Just hearing "Introducing to the elegant Gentlemen X" makes the image of that man many times more noble. Gentleman has become a classic way of introducing the image of a gentleman that everyone aspires to.
And one day, in a used bookstore I discovered The English Gentlewoman.
I believe there is no more suitable word to describe our customers:
“Gentlewoman”
Women today face many unimaginable pressures. They must have a slim and flawless body like in romantic movies, they must be skinny but not be able to ejaculate, they must always look like a slim beauty, they must be healthy enough to take care of the country and the house. After the pressure of appearance, comes the pressure of personality: they must obey the three obediences and four virtues, they must be tactful and gentle, they must have a sense of humor to understand the men's trivial stories, they must always be there when someone needs them, they must be a boss in the company but not be hated by their employees, they must be a good soldier but not better than their male boss, they must have clear political views, they must know how to appreciate high art, but they must also grasp the news that women are gossiping about in the market, they cannot post everything on social networks but they must know what is hot. Yes, yes, yes... listening to more will make you collapse and exhausted!
Can we women do the "must" things above? Yes, we can.
But,
Why do we have to be so much? Let's talk about what we need.
LOVE
When there is Love, family, friends, relatives want something, Elegant Lady likes to do everything for the person she loves.
Common stereotypes often equate "elegance" with weakness and fragility. But an elegant lady, on the contrary, can be extremely strong in spirit, physically strong, thereby nurturing ambition, confidence, courage and constantly striving to improve herself. She fights with all her might against reality in a graceful and flexible way. She breaks all the boundaries of prejudices about the weaker sex. She conquers all mountains to welcome the sun that always shines around her.
Have an energetic new day, Ladies!
"Based on the experience of one of the countless cycles that make up what is called 'life', the author aims to offer advice, drawn from observation and reflection, to those who are preparing to enter a new and bustling period, promoting a branch of knowledge that is completely opposite to other sciences because it can only be learned through mistakes and shortcomings. The lessons learned are often accompanied by shame and remembered with regret".
The English Gentlewoman appeared in the 19th century and began to popularize the idea of "The English Gentlewoman" as the title above. From there, young women prepared their luggage before officially entering life.
When dressing up
"Beauty is also a kind of talent - in fact, it is more wonderful than talent because it does not need to be demonstrated or explained. Like the sunlight, the warm spring weather or the silvery moonlight reflecting in dark water, beauty is a wonderful reality of this world, something that cannot be disputed. It has its own sacred sovereignty.
- The Picture of Dorian Gray (The Portrait of Dorian Gray) - author Oscar Wilde
Quote: Gentlewoman - Lotte Jeffs
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